Providing a secure base & a safe haven – observation clip 1Just two year olds Bobby and Alice are playing in the garden. Bobby uses Mum as her base to explore from and interact with her new friend Alice.
Good for looking at
- Attachment behaviour
- Secure base and safe haven
- Effective adult support
Keep in mind
There is a subtle skilful balance to be made between helping a child have the confidence to be adventurous and stretch their capacities, from a secure base with their key person, and trying to force the child to do these things by not allowing him to have a secure base with his key person in the first place.
Peter Elfer et.al.2012
What evidence do you see of children:
- Using the key person as a secure base to explore from and begin to take risks?
- Seeking out their key person as a safe haven when they need comfort and reassurance?
- What were your thoughts about these clips? (watch clips – 1.4 CLIP 2 – 1.4 CLIP 3 & 1.4 CLIP 4 )
- How do we create a sense of security and safe haven for our key children?
- Does being their key person mean being with them at all times? What challenges are there in providing a secure base for more than one child at a time?
- How do we support children with risk? What issues might a key person have to deal with when their children begin to branch out and take risks?
- What is the potential impact on the key person when dealing with a child’s distress?
- From the discussions that you have had during this session, decide what actions you or your group need to put in place. Including making time to do observations in your setting?